The mistake that many men make when asking for advice on how to attract, or to date women is to ask other men. The problem with asking a guy is that rarely do they know what to do. They sometimes get lucky and find a woman who finds them charming enough to put up with them, but rarely are they so good at dating that they sweep a girl off her feet. That is why there is always “that guy” who has girls crawling all over him. What does he have that others don’t? What does he possess that you don’t? He probably isn’t rich, or famous, but he has figured out how to make a woman happy and what it is that she is looking for.
I am going to give you some dating advice from this guide, first hand from a woman’s perspective, to get any girl that you want. If you do the things on this list I can guarantee to you that you will never be wanting for a date, or be the one whose heart is broken. Following this guide will make you a “woman whisperer” because you will know what 99% of the guys out there don’t.
The bad guy
Many guys think that every girl loves a “bad guy”. It isn’t that they necessarily like a guy who is bad, they like to believe that they have the power to change a bad guy to good. If you want to be a bad guy the secret is that you have to be bad to everyone…but her. Guys who want to score with girls are jerks to the girl themselves. That is not what they are looking for. Girls like when a guy is a total asshole to everyone else and then is sweet to her. It is like she is the only one in the world who gets to see the nice guy. She believes then that she can change you into a good guy all the way around. Not only will she want to go out with you, she will do whatever she can to change you. In fact, the more rotten you are, the more downtrodden you become when with her the more she will try to accommodate. Forever chasing the nice guy, she will do whatever she can to stay with you and to bring out the “nice guy” that no one else and that she fell in love with.
Compliment but only when sincere
The thing that guys don’t get is that a compliment is more of a backhanded slap if it isn’t for real. If you tell her that she looks nice, but she knows you are only saying it because you think it is what she wants to hear, it will not be a compliment. Never compliment her on anything unless you mean it. That doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t compliment her until something really spectacular happens, that means that when you see her you should look hard to find something that you like and then be sincere. Compliments are great, but they have to have merit.
She isn’t looking for another girlfriend
When dating, guys think that if they listen and are into a girl, they will be liked more. The truth is that a girl doesn’t really want you to be that into her life until you are married. She wants you to be the guy who adores and has fun with her, but she doesn’t want you to engage in girl talk. If she starts to talk about some girl at work, or about her nail appointment, cut her off and start a new line of conversation. If you start going down that road, you will probably get a B-line to the friend place. Once there, you won’t be able to get. That is one of the best dating advice tips I can give to you.
Talk about your mom
It is important to talk about your mom favorably and let her know how much you respect your mom, but don’t talk about her like she is your idol. Many girls are fearful of the Mommas boy, if you start to talk about your mom with stars in your eyes, she is going to get rid of you. Sure, girls want their guys to love their mom, but the woman doesn’t want to compete with her and always wants to make sure that you would pick her over your mom. Whether you would or not is of no concern, just make her think that you would always side with her.
Nothing makes a woman crazier than not getting an answer. If it is something as simple as “can you go out tonight”, make sure to answer her timely. If you don’t answer her it will make her think that you don’t, or aren’t listening to her. That can spell disaster for any relationship.